Given all that we know about the Ford accusation, do you think we should ruin someone?

Her memory is pretty sketchy. She remembers it now differently than when she first revealed the repressed memory.

No idea, when or where it happened, or who was there, or how she got there, or how she left.

And the "memory" was repressed for decades…

This just does not seem like enough to ruin someone's life.

Added (1). And even if what she says is 100% true, and we can never know that, then another way to say it might be, "we were all drinking and I was in a bedroom making out with a guy, and he wanted to go further, so I left…"