How to move out of my parents house?
I'm 19 and want to move out of my parents house but it's complicated. I've been having mixed feelings about moving out with my fiancé because every time I bring up moving out my parents get really upset. My dad told me if I move out he's going to take away my insurance that he pays for and I'm going to have to pay for it all in my own so that kind of scares me because as of now he pays for my car insurance on my 2015 Ford Focus and I pay 200 a month for my car. They also don't agree with my me moving out with my fiancé because they told me it's wrong to move in together before marriage. I want to move out because I have a lot of issues with my parents regarding them being too controlling of my life and I want to move out to prove them wrong that I can make it on my own but I'm not sure if I'll have enough because I don't want to move out then end up broke and having nowhere to go. I work as a full time daycare teacher and my fiancé is in the army reserves and is planning on becoming a cop soon. Any advice on if I should just stay living my parents until I'm older or should I move out.
That's pretty abusive. I think moving out is the right thing to do. If he's going to use financial threats to keep you at home, he needs to grow up.
Do it. You'll find a way to cover the insurance.
It's a better idea to stay at least one more year at your parents house. You should save up for as long as possible, it'll make life a LOT easier for yourself. You have the rest of your life to live independently so there's no rush.
You are 18 and you have the right to move out. But since you are 18, your parents are also not obliged to pay any of your bills. If they do, they do it voluntarily.
Why don't you compromise and move to your own place which you don't share yet with your fiance. It is probably a good idea to learn how to live by yourself and take care for yourself. Get some independence from everybody. Though bills can be easier if a place is shared.
Work it out with your parents, I know the way they think may seem old fashioned, but they are really looking out for you. If you're ready to step out and do the "Adult" thing, why not get your own place before you get married. Why not pay for your own bills? I know with your parents helping you helps a little bit, but if you want their respect you have to show them (in a peaceful way) that you're ready. Now, once you're out there you will find out what all working adults go through every day. But it would be a great learning experience for you and maybe this will expand your horizons. You never know what the future holds.
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