Ford Five Hundred tune up time?

Wife's car is an 05 Ford Five hundred 3.0
Has around 113,000 miles on it and it is definitely time for a tune up. Shops are quoting me with and without the boots. There's no engine light on yet nor has she reported any difference in drive-ability only the gas mileage has gone down a lot. So should the boots get changed too or not?

My cars functions stopped working all of sudden?

So I have a 2011 Lincoln MKT 3.7L AWD, and as I was driving back home, the car suddenly stopped working. All electronics, and functions stopped working. The car continued going down in speed. I was lucky I pushed the button to start again and it started. The car was also recently serviced at a Ford dealership. The tank is also full. But what caused the car to turn off like that going 90km/h an hour?

Year: 2011
Make: Lincoln
Model: MKT 3.7L AWD
Mileage: 126100km// 77000 Miles

I can't ever become a US Citizen, but can I become a cultural American from a distance in Rotterdam instead, or still viewed as a foreigner?

It was always my goal to leave my own people, Dutch, formally and legally join and make the US my home and American people my own and become one of them instead.

However, as that is not possible, can America come to me in Europe instead?

I can join the LDS Church in the Benelux, watch CNN, Fox & NBC News, get all the US fashion brands, food & drink products & films here, join the Dems or Republicans aboard, sign up to a US think tank or policy institute as a member, buy Time and Newsweek, get all the email alerts, drive a Ford car & eat out at TGI Friday's.

Is it possible to go native and be an American without holding their passport, citizenship & living and working in the USA, or would I still be considered a foreign outsider and hence 'not one of them'?

I'm already married to a Mauritian so can't marry one of them either.