Made an appt for recall on car, in March. Is this normal?

I just got a car. Did the usual play around with the bells and whistles, looked at the online site, blah blah blah. I found that there's two recalls on my car, that were issued in August. So I waited till Monday, called the dealership and they made my appt… For three months from then. Their reason? So the parts would be in (I live in Hawaii). I asked if they could move earlier, and they said "that date looks nice and comfortable for my car" (their words nearly exactly).
Now, I got the Ford focus. I know my year had transmission issues. I have a very mild shudder on some starts, but that s it. The recall addresses this, and I told the lady that I felt like my car had at least one of the uses they re fixing. Is it normal to make me wait 3 months? What happens if something happens in those three months?

It may get shipped in early, but they are just saying 3 months because it actually may take that long to have the part available.

If the recalled part in question breaks and you take it somewhere else to have it repaired, you can be reimburse for the repairs. Just file for it with Ford with the receipt of the cost of repair.

Power to the people.

No the dealer sounds useless. I would expect parts within 24 hours from a parts distribution service.
They are telling you that Ford can't get the parts for your car quickly,
Call Ford Customer Service.